What if balance was represented not by a set of scales, but by a big round boulder, supported by rock chips tucked underneath to keep it steady?
Give yourself what you need to balance your life as a whole, rather than trying to break up your time and attention to fit into arbitrary boxes labeled "work," "home," "play." See how all the elements of your life are part of the same thing, and your thoughts and actions can lift up that boulder and keep it steady.
Start thinking of yourself, your life, as an indivisible whole, supported by what you do each day. And from there, you can bring balance and support out into the world.